oh dear family

My Grandma called me today to tell me a friend of hers past away. Of course she was very upset, understandably. We talked and I think I helped her to feel better. She said she just really needed to hear my voice. I talked to her about some other family issues that had happened and that are happening now. NOT with my children though, they are all good. Other family. She understood and listened to what I had to say and agreed with me on just about everything. I'm so thankfull to have my Grandma. She is such a wonderful person. I know this is random but a friend sent me this little test to see which princess you are most like. My results were not what I expected but still they pertain exactly to all the drama going on. I hate drama. I hate conflict. But mostly I HATE it when someone is being bullied by someone else who has no sympathy. Someone who is quick to judge and who refuses to use their own advice. Someone who says they are opened mindd but refuses to listen and look past other people. Conniving people who use other people and still feel that they are owed something just because they have is rough. WE ALL have it rough in some way or another. We have our own crosses to bear and I certainly don't want my cross to be judged by anyone other that God. I certainly don't like to judge other people's crosses but when they judge others unfairly who's job is it to stand up for them? Who has the guts to say that's not far and you need to stop? And what about when that person who has the guts gets in trouble for doing the right thing? What then? Who stands up for person with the guts? And when in the end nothing changes and the bad guys are still bad, the good guys are now in trouble with the people they love for doing what they felt was right, and the person getting bullied in the beginning is still being bullied???? What then???? Who fixes it all???? I've always been the Queen B so anything I could say would be dismissed and I'd just get trouble. But when the REALLY GOOD HIGHLY LOVED person steps up and says it all and still nothing changes, it's very depressing and very frustrating! I know we are all here to learn but I don't know how to accept this. I don't know what to do. I know the obvious answer is prayer. Maybe I SHOULD take my own advice. I think I will. A superhero to fly in and fix everything would make everything much better. I just can't believe how much this is stressing me out!